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Ladies, before you get too excited let me tell you two things about those success stories: 1. I can only imagine the frustration and pain they constantly had to suffer as year after year flew by with nothing more to show for than some I love you’s and promises of impending engagement, as they watched their friends walk down the wedding aisle one by one.
Can you handle that pain, day after day, for years? The women eventually gave their men a choice: marry me or lose me. They cut their guys off, cold turkey, no making up, getting back together, trying again.
You’re just going to live for yourself and for God until you meet the person you recognize as your soulmate.
It does take a bit of getting used to, and the conservative attitudes encountered socially, could have a lot to do with it. Semen doesn't taste gross, IMO, but it is an acquired taste. But going by some of the posts on here, maybe some women just do not like the taste, I don't get it... If she could see it as a normal part of intimacy, there probably wouldn't be such a big deal made about it.
If a woman enjoys having oral performed on her (let's face it, women are also an acquired taste (I know what I taste like, not other women)) then fair is fair, she ought to try to reciprocate If she had frank and open friends, she would probably realise that it isn't that big a deal, usually it's all psychological, going back to the 'it's dirty' mentality we are often raised with... I do know of men who have never received a BJ and truly feel sorry for them... Of course there is the other side of the coin, what do you do for her?
After 12 years of being together, I would think that intimacy on many levels would be the norm, but if a person doesn't feel the need to explore, has many 'prudish' people in their life, it would take a lot to overcome those ideas.
I guess it all depends on what is important to you and her.
Well, I hate to tell you this, but if he doesn’t come back he would never have married you anyway. If a woman can’t commit to marrying you now, she almost definitely never will. Have you been in a long relationship that ended well? You can share your thoughts in the comments section below.